I am a CURLY GIRL! There I admitted it! I have curly hair and finally at 37 years old, I really like my curls. After having my twins, and having 3 kids (my oldest is 10 1/2 months older than my twins), I decided to grow out my super short hair (boy short) which I had for probably over 5 years. I would tell people that I kept my hair short because I hated how curly and frizzy, and crazy my hair was when it was long. I decided that I had no time to get my hair cut every 3-4 weeks, not to mention the money I would spend only to have my hair never look the way I hoped that it would. I had attempted to grow my hair out for my wedding 3 years ago, and that never happened. I have super short hair in my wedding photos, which is fine, but i wish I had been able to embrace my curls back then. Just recently, I was at Cambridge Naturals, a local natural food store and saw the book "curly girl, The Handbook". I flipped through it and it was love at first read. I have been reading how shampooing your hair is bad for hair, but here were "curly girls" saying that not shampooing actually helped your curls. I was hooked! I had been limiting how much I was shampooing my hair prior, but now I am going the no shampoo route. I believe that I have Botticelli curls, which definitely means no shampoo for this head. It also means that I will mostly be using water and once a week, I will cleanse my hair with conditioner. I have been really enjoying my curls this time around, and now i think I will even more. I plan to find a recipe for conditioner and hair gel that I can make myself and only use those products on my hair! I know that hair gel can be made from flax seeds and that should be really good for my hair vs the junk that gets put into commercially based products. Now I just need a good moisturizing conditioner recipe! My husband who currently has super short hair, usually has curly hair when it is longer. Even though he has curly hair, he has joined in on the no shampooing and maybe is even considering goring his hair longer again! My 3 kids all have curl to their hair, my daughter being the curliest. I plan to do the hole no shampoo thing if I can. Unfortunately, they are still only 2 1/2 and 19 months, so they get food and things in their hair that may actually need to be cleaned out, but for the most part shampoo is no longer in our house.
So if you are a curly girl, embrace it! Don't wait as long as I did to love what you have and do what's right for what you have! Curls are beautiful, and like I've always been told, there are a ton of people that would die to have your hair!